What if you had a hobby that you loved? What if it gave you pleasure for decades? What if it expanded your mental abilities and aided you in other activities in your life? What if you gained friends from all over the world from your hobby? What if you were fortunate enough to have dozens of people who helped you to improve over the years at your avocation, so that ultimately, you would achieve some level of expertise yourself?
Well, I don't have to imagine "what if?" - because it has all happened to me. Creeping over the 10,000 masterpoint level and reaching my goal of Grand Life Master in the American Contract Bridge League has been an exciting ride, filled with wonderful wishes of congratulations from near and far. (Note that I am not yet on the list, because my points were earned after the most recent posting of the GLM list.)
Yesterday, this article appeared in our local paper. All day, I received warm congratulations from bridge players and non-bridge players alike. My sales meeting for Colwell Banker Burnet happened to coincide with the debut of the article; my manager and peers at work made a big fuss over me, too.
An arrival of an enormous package was a truly special moment. Late afternoon, a package almost as large as I am was delivered to my home. Inside was a spectacular floral arrangement with a sweet note. The card was signed "Biance and Bill".... "Bill" was a man I dated many years ago - and a bridge buddy of mine for many more years. "Bianca" is Bill's wife - and now, his widow. Sadly, Bill died a few years ago from cancer. But, Bill's incredibly smart, vivacious, generous and most thoughtful wife was sweet enough to honor me with these beautiful roses and happy tidings. Somewhere, we do think that Bill "knows" and is smiling down at us.
I fell in love with bridge almost 30 years ago. It captures excitement, challenge, competition, friendship, camraderie and much, much more... the finest mind game ever invented. While I am delighted and proud of my achievement, I am well aware that none of it would have been possible on my own. Reaching this goal was the culmination of years of help from mentors, friends, partners, teammates, family members and my husband, Ed Carr.
Everyone should be as blessed as I am with dear friends and an activity that is filled with so much! Thanks for sharing this fun time with me!