Many moons ago, I learned a simple lesson. If you want to convince people of something, then be nice to them. Treating them well is no guarantee that you'll change any minds. But, most of the time, it heightens your odds of success.
The converse is also true. Tell them they're too stupid to understand what you yourself are able to comprehend.
"That I do think is a mistake of mine," the president told ABC's George Stephanopoulos. "I think the assumption was if I just focus on policy, if I just focus on this provision or that law or if we're making a good rational decision here, then people will get it."
But you schlubs aren't that smart. You didn't get it.
Tell them they're an "angry mob."
Welcome to the mob: an angry, wounded electorate, riled by recession, careening across the political spectrum, still craving change, nursing a bloodlust.
Insult them like this, and ... Unfortunately for too many Democrat supporters, we don't see ourselves as stupid. We don't see ourselves as an "angry mob" - we see ourselves as citizens voting our displeasure and disappointment with the current ruling party. You know; exercising our constitutional rights.
Do people like our president and Charles Blow of the New York Times and many others think that they will "woo us" with sweet nothings like "that stupid angry mob just cannot comprehend how our very smart policies ultimately - one day - are really going to help them"?
More than a few people commenting about Blow's column had responses such as these:
It's not about the fickleness of the mob or whether they are liberal or conservative, or Democrat or Republican. The group of people you characterize as a "mob" with your clever comparisons to Rome (really?) are a group possessed of what used to be (and still exists as) common sense. They're just good people who operate on a base level of principles without overriding concerns about what party they're in or whether they are primarily liberal or conservative. That's it! Get them and they'll forgive almost any failure; lose them, and all of the Ivy league pedigrees in the world aren't going to save you.
And,
Let me just clue you in on why Obama is so unpopular as you seem to be as arrogant and clueless as Obama himself. When you call voters, American citizens, hard working people who don't like to see the Unions exempted from a tax the rest of us unwashed masses have to pay, "the mob",you have now denigrated at least half of America. I know, we don't all have Ivy League degrees and eat arugula like our Dear Leader but we do understand condescension, corruption, and communism when we see it.
Like I said. No guarantee that being pleasant to those who oppose you will change their minds. Insulting them to the hilt, however, seems likely to guarantee that they will not.
Get it?